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daisysusan ([personal profile] daisysusan) wrote2024-10-01 08:52 pm

likes and dislikes

enormous likes and dislikes masterpost for reference and stuff

likes
  • breakup-makeup and second chances
  • canon divergence and alternate timelines
  • canon except for one thing (magic, soulmates are real, etc)
  • christmas! being with family? unexpected domesticity with a new partner? being away from family and feeling weird? spending time with someone and it feels extra intense because you’re usually with family? etc. also dim lights and soft music and a fire in the fireplace … very romantic, good for friends to lovers
  • cuddling (for warmth or just because it’s nice)
  • domesticity, especially unexpected domesticity
  • dream fuckery, whether it’s dreaming another version of your life or meeting someone in dreams or dreams that might be actually happening
  • enemies/rivals/mild dislikers to lovers! people who get on each other’s nerves until they realize they bring out the best (or maybe the worst) in each other!
  • epistolary stories and fake journalism/multimedia
  • families! of choice, of blood, the ways they’re complicated, the ways they’re necessary, sibling antics!
  • forced proximity tropes, including everything from “we handcuffed ourselves together for a joke and now it’s stuck” to “guess we’re snowed in at this cabin” to “we have been cursed to be no more than six feet apart,” but also there was only one bed and arranged marriage and pretending to be in a relationship due to [insert plot contrivance here]
  • forcing people to reckon with losing a key piece of their identity or self-conception
  • fraught feelings and sadness, as long as there’s a happy ending
  • friends to lovers, whether there’s friends with benefits along the way or missed opportunities or just friends falling in love and being afraid of destroying the friendship (tm)
  • future fic, stories about people reimagining their lives, people who dated as teenagers or twentysomethings realizing they’ve grown up in ways that make them more compatible, etc
  • happy endings the characters have to work for
  • hurt/comfort, especially injury fic, including but not limited to career-ending injuries
  • kissing; making out, mean kissimg, kissing as intimacy, practice kissing, also this could definitely go in the nsfw category too
  • marriage of convenience
  • missing scenes
  • mistaken for dating
  • new year’s! gotta find someone to kiss at midnight! might be kinda drunk and reckless! new beginnings!
  • non-linear narratives
  • outsider pov
  • pining and pining while fucking and mutual pining and one-sided pining where the other person eventually reciprocates
  • power differentials, including age difference, especially in stories that really dig into how to make a relationship be solid and comfortable and consensual despite that
  • pwps
  • relationship negotiation
  • secret relationships, including secret marriages
  • slow burn, especially of the years or decades flavor
  • tenderness, especially unexpected tenderness. this def also applies to the nsfw likes section
  • time loops and time travel and other time fuckery
  • travel between parallel universes
  • vulnerability and intimacy, including physical weakness
nsfw likes
  • aftercare (especially with unexpected tenderness)
  • awkward sex and kinkfails, especially with people who talk it through and eventually have a good time together
  • beard burn
  • begging
  • bondage and d/s, especially milder varieties; i love a “put your hands on the headboard and don’t move while i do what i want to you” dynamic
  • comeplay
  • coming untouched
  • consent; checking with someone to make sure they’re enjoying it, especially when motivated by feelings
  • dubcon, especially if it’s fucking to break a curse/because we have to to get out of here alive/otherwise inherent to the trope or situation. drunken hookups are good too, as is someone having ulterior motives for sex
  • emotionally fraught sex
  • falling asleep together after sex. bonus: morning sex after this
  • fingers in mouth
  • first time together, especially with a focus on learning a new person’s body and what they like
  • fixation on a specific body part generally, being obsessed with your partner’s whatever
  • foreplay
  • hair-pulling and hair-playing and hair-touching. also come in the hair
  • hands, fixation on hands, fingerfucking, marking with hands, etc etc
  • hate sex but also: sex that one person thinks is hatesex and the other person doesn’t
  • hooking up with someone else and telling their partner about it
  • humiliation
  • long-distance (phone or video call etc) sex
  • loss of virginity
  • manhandling and rough sex
  • marking with teeth, hands, come, etc
  • multiple orgasms, also someone coming until they physically can’t anymore
  • non-penetrative sex, including intercrual, frottage, etc
  • oral sex, including face-sitting
  • overstimulation
  • orgasm delay/control and edging, making someone wait for what they want
  • penetration, anal or vaginal, with fingers, dick, etc
  • possessiveness
  • public or semipublic foreplay or sex, including phone sex where one person is in public
  • realizing feelings during sex
  • sex bets
  • sex pollen, also i will include with this the kind of a/b/o that i enjoy which is the stuff that focuses on the desperation/biological imperative aspect
  • sex with clothes on, coming in clothes
  • slapping/spanking/other impact play. hitting with and/or of dicks is good too
  • threesomes, both romantic and inviting a third in because it’ll be fun, and everything in between
  • undernegotiated kink
  • unprotected sex, especially unprotected sex because they’re too horny and they forget/don’t want to wait? good stuff
  • voyeurism, especially fucking/kissing other people in the same room as each other
  • winner’s room/reward sex/ritual sex
DNWs
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  • animal abuse
  • characters who talk like they’re trying to get an A in therapy
  • child abuse
  • cisswap unless otherwise specified
  • disordered eating (talking about food generally is fine, and i don’t mind passing mentions to diet/caloric intake especially in sports rpf but don’t dwell on it)
  • drug use, aside from alcohol and brief/off-page marijuana use
  • graphic depictions vomit, tattoos and tattooing (brief references to existing tattoos are fine), and body modifications like piercings
  • full AUs (most of the time; exceptions apply)
  • incest unless specified
  • identity porn/one person is in the dark about the other person’s true identity or motivations
  • infidelity unless specified in the ask
  • mpreg
  • non-canon introduction of bigotry, slurs, discrimination, etc
  • poetry/song lyrics/songfic
  • sexual assault backstories or stories
  • stories about friendships ending
  • suicide and self-harm
  • terminal illness
  • unhappy endings of every flavor, including hurt without comfort, breakup without makeup, major character death, leaving someone in a lot of literal or psychological pain, and so forth
  • vampires
  • zombie
nsfw DNWs
  • a/b/o focused on gender roles/with mpreg/etc
  • age play
  • BDSM AUs/lifestyle stuff, slavefic, generally people belonging to other people/being kept stuff
  • collaring
  • daddy/mommy kink
  • euphemisms for genitalia
  • feminization unless specified
  • graphic sex between minors, references or like, m-rated “they touched etc” are fine i just don’t wanna read like 5k of 16yos rawing each other
  • intentional bodily harm and intense pain, a la burns, cuts, bloodplay, mutilation, cock and ball torture, etc, as an intentional part of sex. the exception here is sillier sex-gone-wrong type stories. if you wanna write me fic about trevor zegras trying to do sexy wax play and accidentally setting his bed on fire go for it
  • pet play
  • rape/noncon
  • scat
  • tentacles and non-human body parts
  • the word “cum”
  • vore
  • watersports